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You know it’s the right decision to make, but your stomach is tied in knots and you’re afraid to move forward.
Have you ever been here?
What if I’m fucking this up? You wonder.
How do I know this isn’t just my issue and won’t show up again clothed in a set of different circumstances.
Your mind races with questions. You point to all the reasons that you are making the right decision, yet you still have trouble actually making it.
Is it the right timing?
Am I doing it in the right way?
The guilt attacks you. A giant, unseen, yet domineering authority looms over you, waiting for you to screw up. It’s terrifying.
What if they misunderstand?
How can I make them see this is about me, not them?
You feel as if you’re going crazy.
I once thought the same thing. Let me tell you that you’re not crazy.
Slow down for a minute. Take a breath, and let me share a little story.
A Little Back Story
Years ago I was in an unhealthy relationship. The weird part is that I was so wrapped up in it that I didn’t realize that it was dysfunctional.
I really did feel like I was going crazy. I was incredibly insecure, and I thought it was all me.
God, I need to see a therapist, I thought. Maybe I really do need to be on meds!
Making the tough decisions can be paralyzing. But maybe you just put off the decision, hoping that the situation will improve.
You hope the other people involved will change somehow. Or you hope that you will change.
Is it your job?
Maybe it’s something bigger…like the overall direction of your life.
The good news is that you can have clarity! You can gain the insights and develop the skills necessary to make strong decisions with confidence and courage.
I want to help you.
A Moment of Illumination
Yesterday, I had the most powerful coaching session I’ve ever facilitated.
It felt like breakthrough heaven! My client dug down to uncover powerful, fundamental beliefs she didn’t even realize she was holding onto, and she was able to begin the process of changing those beliefs.
It was so powerful, that after the consultation, I sat down and started writing. I realized that we uncovered some fundamental issues that everyone deals with at some point in their lives and that it would be helpful to share these with you all.
Because this has the potential to help so many people, I am building a free program that I will roll out as webcasts on Spreecast.com. You will be able to watch the show as we uncover some of these insights, as well as, some of our own.
Afterwards, the shows will be archived for you to watch and re-watch if you’re the type of person who likes to take notes, etc.
I wanted to give you all a head’s up, but since I’m still working out the exact format and scheduling for the webcasts, I want you to sign up for a notification e-mail when I get all the details hammered out.
Go ahead and enter your name and e-mail here and I’ll keep you in the loop regarding the webcast.
Also, if you would like to participate in the sessions by way of some personalized coaching and you have a webcam and microphone, let me know by dropping me a FB message or e-mail through the contact form on this site.
I’ll get with you ahead of time and bring you up to speed about how it all works and to answer any questions you may have about the process.
The bottom line is that you don’t have to live, trapped by indecision. You don’t have to remain imprisoned by the guilt you feel for making the decision you know is right for you.
You can live on purpose, with passion and courage. I want this for you more than anything!
Do you have ideas for format or topics you would want covered in this type of program? I’m still putting it all together, so don’t be shy to chime in with the information that would be most helpful to you!
And if you need some personal direction right away, check out my new affordable coaching packages on the “hire me” tab of this site. Contact me directly with any questions you have.